
You don't need a new gym membership.
Or a new haircut.
Or to throw out your current life and start over (though that can be tempting)!
There's something under the surface;
something you're aware of but ignoring.
You might be like me: you've got a nagging feeling this can't be all there is.
It's true. You're ignoring your dreams while doing everything for everyone else.
Want the short version? Here it is:
I've begun a new virtual circle that's open to new members now.
Here are the details:
I created Illuminate, Reclaim, Express so you can
FINALLY get your longed-for creative project underway
As we work on that, you will:
Illuminate | Reclaim | Express
is a 6-month circle to undo 'good girl' conditioning + help you pursue your dreams.
This 6-month virtual container includes:

Married, 2 grown kids.
Business ticking along nicely.
Fun social life.
Yes, I was stressed out by the caring responsibilities for both children and aging elders.
Yes, I was pushing harder with work and over-committing myself to things I then had to deliver.
But I was 'happy enough', and not so stressed that I couldn't cope.
Or so I thought.
I had health niggles.
I was told to 'manage my stress better'.
I tried meditation. Yoga. Breathing classes.
And I was still strung-out + feeling like I was losing ground, heading in the opposite direction to my dreams.
I knew I had things to do in my life that just weren't getting my time + attention.
Dreams I'd left on the back burner that were neglected.
Sometimes I wondered how long I could go on like this before something, somewhere, broke.
The catalyst came in the form of what the doctors call a 'heart episode'.
Also known as the wakeup call no-one expects.


I ended up in hospital, having my heart stopped in the hopes it would start up again + run properly.
Obviously, I survived.
BUT.
While I was in hospital, every nurse would walk in, pull the door almost shut behind her, lean in and say:
"This happens in women your age. You have no other risk factors, so you're stretched too thin.
Reduce your stressors, or we'll be seeing you back in here."
And given I almost died, I was inclined to listen.
It was the HOW that stumped me.
I embarked on a review of my life.
I discovered that while I looked like I was winning on many levels, I'd severely neglected myself + my dreams.
My dreams of writing.
Of being immersed in a world of words, and spending my time amongst people who love books.
And I'd been ignoring my connection with spirit and nature, too.
These things were the first to drop off my list when obligations reared their heads, and I was suffering – almost dying – because of it.
I had one question at that point: what now?

I began to make some changes.
I joined a committee to organise our very first local Literary Festival (Books! People! Writing!!)
I jettisoned relationships that were stressing me (Not fun, but necessary!)
And I deepened my connection to nature + spirit (This was hands-down the best fun ever!!)
One thing I know: if you're here reading this, then you need to hear this message:
Your soul is calling. Don't ignore it.
The more I spoke about what I was doing, the more women wanted to have the space to do the same.
So I created a circle for us:
Illuminate | Reclaim | Express
A 6-month circle to undo 'good girl' conditioning + help you pursue your dreams.
Circle with other women who are sick of the patriarchy dic(k)tating how we show up in the world.
Join in to be part of:
I created it so you can:


ILLUMINATE

ILLUMINATE:
RECLAIM

RECLAIM:
EXPRESS

EXPRESS:

There are:
Group calls feature:

Nervous system regulating exercises including breathwork + occasional gentle movement

Space for sharing + being held with what is, if you're called

Guided visualisations/meditations to reconnect with yourself

Writing prompts for self-exploration + reflection



If you're feeling like you've lost your creative self to the demands, obligations, responsibilities + stressors of life, and you're sick of having projects in your dreams that never get attention, I'm inviting you into Illuminate, Reclaim, Express.
Join me to explore your sacred IRE:
Illuminate what's not working for you in life
Reclaim the parts of yourself that you've ignored for years
Express what's been waiting for you
Got questions? Email support@tamaraprotassow.com + I'll get back to you!
Here's what my clients have to say:
"...your support and belief in my writing ability has been inspirational."
Barbara Jones
Tamara holds us in a safe, wise, warm, supportive and badass space for people who are serious about progressing, and fed up of doing it alone.
Jo Bradshaw
I just want to say thank you again for this. The timing of it is uncanny and the information is just what I need right now. Knowing I am not alone is a huge blessing to me so thank you.
And thank you for holiding the space so beautifully for this process.
Jenny Griffin
The tools you taught made me feel confident in my ability. You worked some sort of magic because I have very little resistance now, I use the tools and it is easy for me to write regularly.
Thank you so much, Tamara!
Shauntay Williams
This has been life-changing because I've grown in my confidence in who I am and my voice. It has reinforced me as an artist, in my sense of self.
Melissa Schroeder
Tamara meets you exactly where you’re at, and gently nudges you forward with her magical combination of empathy and total belief in your potential.
Melanie Lienhard Mastrangelo